I have learned even better that a voice always says, "you should come", and when I'm inside her, I think, there is the voice, just as I expected to hear. And I pay no attention to the man behind the curtain and I avoid coming.
Except when I don't, but then I pay for it.
I found some things that increase libido and erections this year which I've been practicing, and all is good.
As I said a year ago, nothing changed wrt my wife and her low drive but I finally stopped caring.
She is very happy it seems, and even if I'm the one feeling the exquisite sensations and world of this type of sex, and she isn't, well, that's not my concern.
So that's what I learned this year.
What about you?