Addicts..help me out!

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Im dealing with a boyfriend who is addicted to porn. I know he is attractrd to me, I have the body type he is looking up and actually make my living as a nude model, yet I cant get past the feeling of inadequacy. He can see countless videos of me, and its hard to understand why hes compelled to chase after these other women behind my back. I feel boring and uninteresting. How can our sex life ever be satisfying to him when hes engaged with hundreds of the webs most beautiful women every other week? Will he ever feel about me as turned on as he does by porn? How do I live with it?

Agree with infinity.

Agree with infinity. Definetly be carefull with the word addict. Keep in mind that most of us didn't had any idea that this could be harmfull.

Oh and you may want to keep your artist name to yourself,since you don't want to be the one who's going to be responsible for all those relapses :p.

Welcome

It's frustrating to realize that no matter how beautiful or sexy we are, it's never enough for a desensitized brain. But that is the case. Today's porn delivers novel sexual images on demand in endless supply. No one woman can compete on the visual level.

On the other hand, porn can never deliver what we can: affectionate touch and close trusted companionship. Alas, even if you're cool with his porn use, he may desensitize his brain with overstimulation. If so, real sex may not provide enough stimulation for him to orgasm easily.

Until then, though, he's unlikely to see a problem.

Meanwhile, please do not compare yourself with porn babes or imagine that they are "competing" with you. They aren't. They're more like a drug fix of constant dopamine hits. They aren't "real" competition. For more see: Intoxicating Behaviors: 300 Vaginas = A Lot of Dopamine

Welcome

It's frustrating to realize that no matter how beautiful or sexy we are, it's never enough for a desensitized brain. But that is the case. Today's porn delivers novel sexual images on demand in endless supply. No one woman can compete on the visual level.

On the other hand, porn can never deliver what we can: affectionate touch and close trusted companionship. Alas, even if you're cool with his porn use, he may desensitize his brain with overstimulation. If so, real sex may not provide enough stimulation for him to orgasm easily.

Until then, though, he's unlikely to see a problem.

Meanwhile, please do not compare yourself with porn babes or imagine that they are "competing" with you. They aren't. They're more like a drug fix of constant dopamine hits. They aren't "real" competition. For more see: Intoxicating Behaviors: 300 Vaginas = A Lot of Dopamine