Back to Back Wet Dreams WTF!!!!!!!!

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so on days 15 and 16 i had wet dreams. The first one took me by surprise because i have gone 21 and 28 days without PMO with no wet dreams so it was kinda odd i got one at day 15. That whole day i felt fine with no changes in mood. then the following day i had another which really shocked me. Unfortunately today i've had a splitting headache from the time i woke up til now and i definitely felt a loss of energy i even woke up later then i normally do feeling groggy. Has this ever happened to anyone? should i take this as a positive sign or did it set me back??
On a side note even though i relapsed here and there since i started this journey i definitely feel much more in control then when i first started. P hardly even crosses my mind anymore and urges are a lot weaker. I feel i am really determined and focused to go the full 2 to 3 months this time around but i hope these two wet dreams didn't set me back since they were so close together.

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Who knows?

Nothing you can do about it but stay focused and calm and be gentle with yourself. Your body is trying to regulate itself. Just let it do it.

Any social opportunities around? Sometimes those dreams are signals that you need to get moving on connecting with others.

It's ok. Relax! Nature is

It's ok. Relax! Nature is doing its thing. Trying to return back to normal levels. I just had one thus morning. 3AM mind you. Very annoying waking up to swap boxers and clean up. I was so tired but the ejaculation part woke me up. And the dream was so disorted and confusing I had to just ignore it and fall back to sleep.

Since my reboot (11/23/11). I have been craving affection with a female. My five senses are going off rapidly now. My social anxiety is pulling me back though. I encountered to beautiful ladies yesterday on my job. I sensed the flirtatious comments they were saying to me. Something I honestly wouldn't have picked up on during my PMO. I just ignored the flirting comments yesterday because I didn't know what to say back. To afraid what both girls would have thought about me.

Ugh!!! Day 76. Feel good but annoyed that my social anxiety has a stronghold. I'm 24, haven't been on a date or haven't had the time because I have been so focused on my academics. I don't have to many girls as friends!!

When in doubt...

just smile at them and send them a telepathy message like, "You're cute." Or, "You're a flirty one, eh?" Pretty soon just the right phrase will be popping out of your mouth effortlessly. No rush.

Unfortunately I've had very

Unfortunately I've had very little social opportunities only because i work crazy hours and i only had maybe 2 days off in the last 3 months plus on top of that I've been concentrating on studying for this job promotion. Only interactions have been with people i already know, no opportunities for new interactions.
I wish i felt cravings for a female right now but then again i feel emotionless same as I've felt since before starting the reboot process. The only time i felt completely amazing was maybe day 5 when i had my first attempt in November probably. I felt like i could walk on clouds and everything was so much clearer/brighter in my eyes. Hopefully in 2 to 3 months something snaps inside of my head to bring back to normal