I realize that there is much knowledge from long time members on this site regarding karezza techniques on how to relax both partners, bond appropriately, how to move or not move, and the nitty bitty details regarding PIV. However, I have found that most members speak very vaguely and do not share in physical detail on how they are practicing karezza. I often read forum comments searching for advice on the various interesting topics, and I find very vague and aloof descriptions in what exactly people are doing. I know Karezza in your own journey, but if this is a forum where we share experiences, I want to understand details. Members Emerson and treehouse have done a pretty good job at explaining physical actions that take place during their experiences. I think that one reason that members are not sharing details is that they are sharing their experiences in regard to the feelings they are having, rather than the actions they are taking.
Example: allow the love to emanate from your breasts. A concept I've read about on here. What exactly is happening? If the point is to focus on the present moment, I could see how "focus on the sensations you are feeling in your breasts right now" could help. But telling me about a "positive polarity" or some vague electrical flow sensation doesn't do me any good. It suggests that this is what I could feel, but not what I'm supposed to get there.
Also, there is a lot of vagueness in regards to how a man moves inside a woman. I request that when people write about their experiences, they write specifically.. At least when they are talking about a specific topic. I don't expect someone to say the details for a three hour long love session... But when you describe a certain issue, like lack of movement in a PIV connection, don't describe it as a "connection" or "one unit"... Or any talk about seeking greater understanding or ascension together... . These are descriptions of what it feels like in PIV, not what you actually do.
Let's face it, the emotional parts of karezza can only be known by the two people who are doing it. Stick to talking about the nitty gritty details regarding the penis, the vagina, the hands, the eyes, the body. Poetic descriptions only make karezza seem beautiful- not any more attainable or realistic. Tell me how many inches you move, your positions, how long you are there, how hard or soft the penis is, how tight or non-tight the woman is. These are the details I want to know!!!!!!!
I know there are descriptions like this in Marnia's and Diana's books, but the whole point of a forum is to hear from all different people's experiences to gain perspective... Not just hearing about the ideal sexual experience in detail from an author and then trying to base my understanding only on that. Please, please, post and describe what you DO. I need advice about what I can do, not about how you felt.