Basically, I've been attempting to reboot for the past 7 months and within the last month I have been Skype chatting with a woman I met on a online forum we both are involved in. Since then, I've been chatting with her for several hours per day on average. We are in the plans to meet up and explore the potential for a relationship. Since I find her very attractive and experience a strong emotional bond with her, this makes it hard for me to not have my mind go to sexual thoughts. Indeed, we have discussed many sexual matters to quite intricate detail, which results in major dopamine hits. I'm wondering if anyone has any thoughts about whether or not this would slow the reboot process? Perhaps it could help since I'm directing my fantasies at one specific woman, rather than with porn as in the past? I don't engage in any other sexual thoughts, or stimuli at all. I won't be able to see her for at least 4 months, and will be not masturbating for any of that time, so I have some time to achieve progress in the reboot, but don't want to slow things down either.