Day 2

Submitted by Kevin on
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I just want to record my observations coming out of the passion cycle. Today is feb 5, and my wife and I had a few days on an intense passion cycle, which admittedly was fun while it was going on. It ended Feb 3. Alas, what goes up must come down, and today there is a noticeable dip in enthusiasm and joy. She even complained of being bored, which is unusual.
I'm observing my own neediness, but trying not to act in it too much ( ie, wanting to be reassured that she loves me, etc)
Still, I'm glad to be noting it, and am confident that over the next two weeks if I can go into slow and cooler bonding behaviors, our joy will return.
And I need to be loving and patient with her especially, and not worry how she treats me.