We’ve been practicing love making without the goal of orgasm for well over a year now – in my case that means no attempt to reach ejaculation. What I’ve noticed is that now when I’m moving inside my wife I feel a gradual build up of the most delightful sensations and I often feel as though I’m actually having an orgasm. This feeling then gradually subsides and I don’t usually ejaculate, although this does happen from time to time.
I was wondering whether others experience this. Afterwards I feel totally relaxed and extremely affectionate and experience no headaches (as sometimes happens if I ejaculate) and certainly no “hangover” or bad feelings. I also find that my erection often comes back almost immediately and I start to move again for a short while.