Can someone point me to a good book or article that could help my wife and I get a better understanding of what Karezza is all about? There are some relationship issues we've been trying to sort out. Not enough sexual activity for me and not enough intimacy for her. Just from reading a few of the articles I feel like this could be something that will help me becomes more intimate with her while also helping her become more sexually active for me.
Also is this something I could get into even if my wife doesn't at first? I ask this because at first glance I don't see my wife being willing to stop having orgasms and start giving me long slow teasing hand jobs multiple times per week. I think if we are to get into this it will be because I start doing it first and try easing her into it slowly. Then again I'm not sure I'd enjoy going without orgasm without the increased sexually activity so I don't know.