My wife and I have been exploring Karezza style sex for a few weeks. I'm totally sold on it, she is more skeptical.
We have been together for 19 years, and during that time, our sex life has continued to improve every year.
For a long time after we were married, we were near dead bedroom. She just had no libido and we would end up having sex probably 20 times a year.
A few years ago, we decided to make some changes and schedule the sex. We settled on once a week on Saturdays. She didn't usually have an orgasm, but form time to time, she'd let me get her off another way.
All of a sudden about 4 years ago, she began having orgasms from PIV. It was as if a light went off and she was suddenly orgasmic. Her sex drive improved. We moved to twice a week a couple of years ago, and then 3 times a week 6 months ago.
And now comes Karezza. Having had a PMO addiction for years that I'm only recently dealing with, I've had plenty of orgasms in my 39 years, she on the other hand is having a harder time giving it up.
Her comments are that she knows what it is like to go without orgasm while having sex, since she did it for years. I tell her that it's different know because we are practicing daily bonding behaviors, and having sex much more frequently, and she is feeling the pleasure from sex because she knows her body's sexual responses better.
Anyone have any feedback to her hypothesis?