Masturbating using a latex sleeve and lube.

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Quit porn cold turkey a few days ago and
since it's a habit- not a true need (like ejaculation is imo) - no big deal!

I'm checking email, exercising, cleaning my workshop instead- no big deal - great actually!

I abstained for a bit. around day 3 (approximately - i'm not going to self flagelate or count the minutes when it comes to masturbation) (Porn though - it's the spiritual junk food that screws us up do to overavailability and over stimulation.

Anyway I USED LUBE AND A LATEX SHEATH.

ERECTION WAS OK, SLOW TO START AFTER NOT BEING ENGORGED FOR AFTER ABOUT 72hrs... NOT REALLY THAT HARD BUT ENOUGH TO GET THINGS GOING. I GOT SOFT A FOR A BIT, NOT A BIG DEAL.. BUT HAD A GOOD FINISH.

what i like is that it's nowhere near as good or warm as a vagina, nowhere near my own hand in terms of the control of my own stimulation.. so it's a bit of work.... but i get to blow my load, and work up more of a sweat than edging..(i also think that cardio is a factor - although ED is so elusive - but certainly edging is fairly lame i did enjoy saving for a few days though - way longer than normal semi hard edging to porn every day or so.

I don't want to get moralistic on myself or anyone else. i also figure there are many variatiions.. the guys who go for months without ejaculating may have the best method - i dont know - or maybe it's better FOR THEM.
porn is crap tho..
what was cool also was that my mind focussed on my erection, the sensation/pleasure and fantasizing about my wife. cool.

You're right that what matters

is what works for you.

I have a question. You assume that the erection was slow because you had taken a break. This may be right, but not for the reasons you think. Have a look at these two pages, just in case they are at all relevant.

Do You Need A Chaser After Sex? (The "chaser" is part of what keeps guys in overdrive trying to use frequent masturbation as an aphrodisiac.)

Men: Does Frequent Ejaculation Cause a Hangover? Notice that there may be a natural "lag" time if men are not in the "overdrive" described above.

Fascinating stuff.

 

very interesting thread - again individuals vary greatly...

i'm 48 so while there is a heightened desire after orgasm it's not like it used to be of course. likewise even in my younger years if i'd miss a day or more rarely miss 2 days there would be a different kind of erestion - slower to become erect. and coming from a smaller flacid state. it all good. before i had experianced any ED (i used to enjoy the novelty of the rare moments went things were kind of temporarily shrunked. it's certainly fun to allow the body to replenish and feel more sexually hungry than if i was having an orgasm every day - which is probably too much at my age