Ever since I have stopped sex with orgasm (and all masturbation) it seems I am extremely sensitive to any sexual situation - it pretty much brings me right to orgasm. I have been sublimating my sexual energy often (every day if I can remember to). While I have noticed that I am much more attuned to "subtle" energies, my new found sensitivity has made sexual situations of any nature feel like stimulus overload. I go from feeling normal to feeling an orgasm start in a matter of seconds, and once it starts, I seem unable to stop it. This has even happened in my dreams and I wake up in the middle of an orgasm (and then i get very depressed).
Does anyone have any advice for how a woman can learn to control that energy once the path of the orgasm begins? Are there any techniques for how a woman can stop an orgasm from occurring? I looked all over the internet and this site; it seems that other women don't have this problem :( Thank you for your help!