No erection with my partner! Is porn responsible?

Submitted by sparky32 on
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Hello all,

I am a 21 year old male, and I have recently been with my first sexual partner. A few nights ago, we were making out, and I felt nothing. Not horny, no erection...nothing. Last night we did the same, but it went further. Again during make-out, no libido. When she went down on me, I couldn't get it up. I didn't feel nervous, I was really very comfortable. I was making out, fingering her, performing oral sex, yet no erection.

I have been masturbating with porn for years, and I always thought my problem would not be lasting long enough during sex. Instead, I can't even get hard! Could this be because of the porn?! I hear if I stop watching porn/masturbating for a few weeks things will change. Has this ever worked for anyone else? Could this be due to something else? Erectile Dysfunction? Psychological barrier?

Thanks for your advice, everyone!