I have recently started practicing karezza with a close male friend. We are committed to practicing karezza even though we are not in a conventional committed relationship and see each other two maybe three times a week. We are monogamous. Our sexual connection is extremely powerful. He is very able to not have orgasm (he has been interested in karezza for about seven years). When making love last week, during gentle intercourse I had an orgasm. His belly was rubbing against my clitoris though he wasn't trying to make me come. I also felt what seemed like positive expanding energy around my clitoris and vagina though I understand this is supposed to be my receptive/negative pole. I wonder if other women have had this experience? I can sense it is difficult for me to let go of having orgasms with this man, and especially having them during intercourse rather than just with oral sex is kind of amazing. I believe that karezza can move the level of connection to higher, more spiritual, and ecstatic realms. It seems like a long road from here to there at the moment. Any encouragement?