Orgasm or something........?

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We are currently in our 10th week since we began to practice Karezza. I have only slipped over the orgasm edge twice and my wife has a perfect record so far! It has been truly amazing and we are doing better than we ever have as a couple. We are so close it is unbelievable.

I have a question though. I know that Karezza is about no orgasms but I have been experiencing something I am not too sure about. There have been several times when I think I have had an orgasm but I did not ejaculate. It was like nothing I have ever experienced and I don't even know how to describe it except to say it was like I was hallucinating in a state of bliss and ecstasy for a brief time and I was even trembling a bit when it ended. I was able to continue with intercourse but it was like I was in a fog or a daze for awhile. So my question is, was that an orgasm and if so is it something to be avoided? Has anyone else here experienced the same sort of thing?

Not worry about

I think what you are experiencing is a true ecstatic exchange of energy. I have not experienced that with sex yet, but I have managed to get into that state through cuddling. If both my wife and I are very relaxed, there will eventually be a strong flow of energy back and forth between us. On one occassion it became so strong that I felt light headed. There were rushes of energy within my body and between my body and hers. My heart rate would speed up, and then slow down. It was very odd. For the rest of that day my wife was very affectionnate and we felt very close.

In any case, I do not think it is anything to worry about. Yogi's go to great lengths to create those types of experiences.

It should be said that you do not want to get addicted to those peak experiences. Enjoy them when they happen, but do not go chasing them. You have broken the fixation on orgasm. Do NOT try and replace it with a new fixation on eneregtic experiences. That would be exchanging one dopamine fuled trap with another one.


Louie, that makes sense, I wondered about trying for it again but what you said is right, I will just let it happen when it does and not chase after it.


Very similar but I did not have to fight the orgasm this time, it wasnt like I got close and had to hold back which made this experience so unique. For the moment orgasm hasn't been a problem which has been very nice. I guess it comes with time, for once time is being kind to me!

I have a similar experience

sometimes with cuddling, sometimes inside her, I feel this for sure. I am creating that feeling more and more often by focusing on my root and bringing energy up into my whole body, up and kind of through her breasts. That's how it feels to me, and if I continue to focus on my root the pleasure and feelings that well up are just sublimely pleasurable and similar to orgasm but not focused on my genitals in any way.

It's like a shadow, though, when you shine a light on it. If my attention moves to the pleasure itself, it disappears. It still is wonderful, but that particular orgasmic type pleasure is only there when I focus on my root and relax and relax and relax, and don't shine the light of my attention on the pleasure itself, but just notice it.