My girlfriend and I had been together for a little over a year and a half before recently breaking up about a week ago. From the start of our relationship, karezza had been a sore spot. I've been a student of Gnosis for many years and know that restraining the orgasm is beneficial and healthy in so many ways. She is 21 and I'm 30. We were both each other's first sexual partner and long-term relationship, and lived together.
We had a very healthy and loving relationship, but ultimately were unable to find the right compromise to meet our respective sexual preferences.
I was curious if any members have some advice/tips for dealing with the loss of a beloved over a more abstract reason than most traditional relationships. It seems like it would be easier to move on if the reason was more concrete (i.e. someone cheated, too many arguments, etc.). Thanks for any input from the community.