anyone experienced anything like this going through abstinence? i hope my description isn't too detailed and uncomfortable for any reader.
I'll notice as I'm sleeping / half asleep / wake up to it. never happens during the day.
been happening over the last approximately 1.5 months.
doesn't usually come on with any erotic dreams or thoughts (but may) and when it does there'll be no sexual feeling either.
to make it go down i'll have to distract myself.
feels different to a normal nighttime erection as its less engorged (feels and looks narrower), it's as hard as stone but the glans are soft/limp - like blood wants to keep pumping but if there's any contraction, it'll hurt all up and down the shaft.
it could be me thinking about it too much but the veins look a little more dark and prominent than usual.