I'd love a male upper 50s onward who's experienced with Karezza and understands what I used to call "natural monogamy."
I'm a widow who was heading towards Karezza with my husband "accidentally." I'm naturally affectionate and he, being an artist who loves to slowly savor, and one who naturally took things slow -- already enjoyed that type of caressing. With his genital herpes and other issues that made "breeder sex" sometimes impossible, we started exploring other ways of being together.
When I lost him, I thought he and I were the only ones who engaged in this type of love-making, even though I'd heard of "strange eastern Tantra sex" which for some reason never felt like something I wanted to investigate.
When I came to this site, I felt like I found a Home Community -- others with the same desires in partnership. Up 'til now I thought there was something wrong with me!
I'm not ready for another partner so I can't practice with one, but I'd love an anonymous male e-mail friend to answer questions from a male perspective and help me learn all I can -- whether or not I ever choose another partner or not.