I am pretty new to this site, though i have been practicing Karezza/tantric sex for over 6months with my wife after reading books on the same Samael Aun Weor and Kundalini Awakening. At the beginning she could not understand why i was suggesting the avoidance of Orgasmic sex for the Non Orgasmic Sex. Any way I have not ejaculated for over 3 months after i felt awful the last time I did. The issue of which i need suggestions, is how can i convince her to resist Orgasming. I have noticed that, she prefers to cum before i enter her but when she does cum she will be very irritated and easily annoyed. she will give reasons like , "i am tired, i dont feel like sex, lets just sleep,.....bla bla..." this always leaves me high and dry, i looked for ways to cool myself including cold showers and energy circulation techniques, but I still feel this continous one sided action is straining our marriage. I have a lot of sexual energy of late but i have no where to dispense it. having another side kick, chick would it worsen the situation? or what can i introduce to save this marriage's Sex.