With novels like 50 Shades Of Grey becoming highly popular among women today, it just shows how our default sexuality can be destructive and draw people apart.
There is also a serious problem with the dating scene - and people who would normally be able to find a woman only a few decades ago, are unable to do so now. Women have developed much more of an entitlement-complex, more of an ego and have become much more choosy since the rise of feminism. Men have also helped perpetuate this and exploit the tougher situation with the continuing rise of the PUA community (pick up artistry).
This video conversation offers some very interesting insights as to the frustrations of an increasing amount of men who are fed up of the attitudes of modern society and the dating scene - and becoming fed up with sexuality in general:-
I think people, ultimately, desire close companionship more than sex. Simply having somebody to hug or touch (even in a non-sexual way) can be immensely soothing particularly after a hard day's work. Such a bond need not subject itself to the demanding requirements of sexual preferences or the misguided infatuation of romantic love. These people need that, as they are often hardworking men (and also sometimes women) who are just left alone in an increasingly narcisstic world.