What do you need from your partner when you quit porn?

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As more heavy porn users give it up, more partners need to know what's helpful and what's not during the transition. What advice can you give?

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as much tender touch and kisses as possible. If there's any one positive that's happened, is that I've become much more docile. Girls I talk to are so open and flirt with me. Like touching me and everything on their own. That had NEVER happened in the past. If I were single, I would make a killing with the ladies. I think it's vital that your partners exhibit calming touch. I suffer from intense anxiety, and touching her or her touching me is so healing. I just did a meditation retreat, and while my girl wasn't there I just asked people there for so many hugs to deal with the anxiety - young, old, skinny, fat. Even touching the boys sometimes, but in a different way of course Smile Tender touch and hugs are really important, and I think people just really go for it. And if you really want, it will get you hot girls. Just make sure you practice karezza, so they will keep coming back! But only if you're single, of course (which is slightly off topic).