So, about nine or ten months ago my husband and I got into Karezza. It has been quite a different nine months for us, different than anything we have ever experienced. He was the initiator of this new sex life and did really well with it. He was able to forgo orgasms almost immediately. It has been amazing to have intercourse for over and hour and never orgasm. We both agree that it has been a good thing.
There is one issue though that we cant seem to come to terms with. The issue is that I am no longer able to have an orgasm. It is like there is nothing there. We have tried and tried but nothing. I have even tried masturbating....nothing. He is still able to orgasm and ejaculate and does so about once a month or, maybe every six weeks, sometimes during intercourse and sometimes manually, (I / we don't try to make it happen, but sometimes it just does and I have to admit, I still enjoy seeing him ejaculate!) We do lots and lots of manual stimulation to each other, it is more enjoyable than ever, before Karezza days. He has asked me time and time again about my lack of orgasms and the lack of desire but I don't have an answer. I just dont have it (the ability to orgasm) anymore. Before we got into Karezza I was as orgasmic as any woman and never had a problem climaxing, but now it is gone.
My question is, what has happened, is it a result of practicing Karezza for the last nine months. We both have experienced the benefits of Karezza and agree there is no doubt about its benefits, but I know he would really like to see me orgasm again and to be truthful I wouldn't mind it myself. Are there any other couples here who are experiencing this?