I just would like know how far men and women would/should go during Karezza.
Some time ago I learned, that women and men have a plateau during sexual arousal, means no further extitation for a while but then It's going up further after some time.
I made that observation:
1.During stroking gently my penis it starts to get hard, and I get nice feelings,
2.Then my penis is hard and the nice feelings are somehow gone, (seems to be the plateau)
3. To get new feelings, I need now to use faster stroking and/or more pressure. Stroking quicker and harder (or thrusting during sex) needs more energy and drains power, leading to a flacid one after a certain amount of time.
4. Thrusting even more, it comes to a moment, when the arousal pushes one to the edge of orgasm. But still you can decide to stop or relax.
5. If one starts to thrust still harder, orgasm is reached soon.
So again the question, how far to go. As I seem to have that plateau, with few feelings. And even my wife says, she feel not much during intercourse. Some tell to make movements just as much as to keep the penis hard. Others say to go as far as the urge for harder thrusting comes, and then to relax. Some even call that karezza, when they go clos to orgasm an then relax and so on.
One more remark. I tried a sort of solo karezza for about 10 - 12 minutes, stroking softly my penis until it's errected, and then just relax until somehow soft, and the stroking again. During that I got nice feelings. But sometimes the penis doesn't get soft at all, so i just made a break of stroking (up to one minute), and then again stroking until some feelings appeared. Even that was nice, and I felt very well and happy after that. FYI, I am about 50 years old.
So the question is, keeping i at that low stages 1 and 2, or going even into the No. 3 stage? Would be nice to get some answer.
You see, guys are looking more for that technical aspects and descripitions...