Blue Balls testicle swelling

Submitted by asier on


I have read the rest of post about blue balls but I haven't succed.

I have tried soft intercourse but the result is always blue balls. If not eyaculating is normal it shoudn't generate pain.
I am suffering testicle swelling and I don't know what to do. I thought that perhaps you could help me.

I meditate during the week and I am relaxed without problems.

And the problems come over the weekend with a girlfriend who comes to visit
me at my house. We are practicing karezza as you comment in your book.

(2017 article) What Is Karezza? ~ How Sex Without Orgasm Deeply Satisfies Us (Part 1)

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Submitted by Marnia on

“So she thoroughly taught him that one cannot take pleasure without giving pleasure, and that every gesture, every caress, every touch, every glance, every last bit of the body has its secret, which brings happiness to the person who knows how to wake it. She taught him that after a celebration of love the lovers should not part without admiring each other, without being conquered or having conquered, so that neither is bleak or glutted or has the bad feeling of being used or misused.” ~ Hermann Hesse, Siddhartha

How to talk to a long-distance partner about Karezza

Submitted by whitedeer on

Hi again everyone. After years of being single I've started dating a friend who I've known online for over a year, (long story) and we've slowly gotten to know each other despite a large physical distance separating us. He is going to be traveling to see me relatively soon.

I've discussed karezza with him in a relatively cursory way, and while he was not entirely closed-minded they seemed emotionally resistant to it (I wasn't happy either when I learned about the reality of orgasm!), and seemed to get at least somewhat angry.