Karezza

Karezza sex is the key to a passionate love life. Find out what it's all about

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Here's the newest thing everyone's buzzing about: Karezza sex! What exactly is this and how will it spice up your sex life? Read on!

The rules are laid out pretty loud and clear — When it comes to sex, having orgasms is the ultimate goal every couple has. And that is the shortcoming (pun intended) of the way we perceive sex. Much like life, sex isn’t a destination, it’s a journey.

Is VICTORIAN sex the key to a more passionate love life? (The Daily Mail)

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Is VICTORIAN sex the key to a more passionate love life? Controversial technique from the 19th century promises to improve any relationship

  • The practice of karezza encourages a focus on intimacy rather than orgasm 
  • The phrase, which is taken from the Italian word for 'caress', was coined by Chicago obstetrician and gynecologist Dr. Alice Bunker Stockham in 1896
  • By not having a 'finish line' couples will experience sexual energy for longer

Could this Victorian sex move revitalise your sex life?

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Sometimes in a relationship, sex can get a little stale.

It’s perfectly normal, but as a sex writer the number one question I get asked is ‘how do I get those first time feelings back?’ The honest truth is that you can’t. There’s no way of making things totally new again. But there are plenty of ways of making them deeper, more passionate and more exciting than ever before. And isn’t that just as good?

Honesty

Submitted by alex_is_bonding on

I am posting this entry to share a wonderful experience I had with my wife. We've been attempting to bond together for quite some time but never been able to get past a certain point without orgasm. Whether it was Internet-related behaviors on my behalf or her doubts about the necessity of passing up orgasms, we just haven't achieved our long range goals as of yet.

a new observation about self pleasure

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Submitted by emerson on

We continue practicing Karezza very happily. For me especially it is incredibly pleasurable and gets better all the time.

This morning I realized when I woke up in my room (we sleep separately) that I could easily feel a sort of version of that pleasure I feel with Karezza, without any penis touching or even an erection. It was not a penis experience at all.

By focusing on my root I could feel the pleasure in my whole body for an extended period of time. Not 1% as good as with my wife, but quite amazing nonetheless.

Continued Progress

Submitted by John G. on

My wife and I have been practicing Karezza for approaching four years, now.

I just realized that, over the last month or so, that I have not been 'reaching for the edge.' For some reason, I have been quite satisfied staying at 'medium.' It may be that I only now have fully internalized that inadvertent ejaculation does take a bit out of me, and that I can be quite satisfied by staying clear of the edge. Or, it may be that my body has become more attuned to pleasure, and that I reach satisfying levels without having to move to the edge.

Met someone new, how should I go about this?

Submitted by Swedish Thrill on

We had only been on two dates prior to having sex. I'm not used to women moving along this quickly! She kind of surprised me with that. Netflix and BAM! :) Nothing wrong with that, but I learned that the kind of sex she really likes is not what I'd like, so are we incompatible?

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