(2017 article) What Is Karezza? ~ How Sex Without Orgasm Deeply Satisfies Us (Part 1)

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“So she thoroughly taught him that one cannot take pleasure without giving pleasure, and that every gesture, every caress, every touch, every glance, every last bit of the body has its secret, which brings happiness to the person who knows how to wake it. She taught him that after a celebration of love the lovers should not part without admiring each other, without being conquered or having conquered, so that neither is bleak or glutted or has the bad feeling of being used or misused.” ~ Hermann Hesse, Siddhartha

How to talk to a long-distance partner about Karezza

Submitted by whitedeer on

Hi again everyone. After years of being single I've started dating a friend who I've known online for over a year, (long story) and we've slowly gotten to know each other despite a large physical distance separating us. He is going to be traveling to see me relatively soon.

I've discussed karezza with him in a relatively cursory way, and while he was not entirely closed-minded they seemed emotionally resistant to it (I wasn't happy either when I learned about the reality of orgasm!), and seemed to get at least somewhat angry.

Karezza - over excitation causes hangover?

Submitted by Fel9696 on

Hi everyone,

So i've been trying Karezza with my partner for some weeks now and the exchanges have made us feel very different in a very good way, however when we try karezza intercourse at the end I feel those hungover symptoms x10. I get overly excited, a lot of precum but I dont ejaculate. I try to breathe and try to refocus on conforting her by giving her loving affection by strocking her hair or kissing her in a loving giving way.

Are there any physiological or hormonal changes associated with the decline of passionate affection for one’s partner?

Submitted by Yuuichi on

The feelings of being passionately in love with a person early in a relationship are widely acknowledged to decrease over time, and after a few years, probably disappear entirely.

Are there any hormonal, physiological or neurological changes associated with the increase of relationship duration, and thus inevitable change in behaviour?

I would like to request this question pertain more specifically to the female, rather than the male and male behaviour, since it seems to me that substantially more has been written on men and male behaviour already. Thank you.

Karezza and Depression medication

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Good day all
I want to find out, would depression meds numb out the effects of the karezza method, having its influence on serotonin and all, would karezza "overcome" these effects of depression meds.
My wife will be stopping the meds soon, as its keeps here in a "numb" state, obviously altering her libido, so the experience will improve for her, but I would love to know the science behind the oxytocin vs depression meds battle.