Next week we will celebrate our 5th anniversary. My wife turns 70 in July and I turn 59 in September. We continue to make love with PIV twice a day -- we slowly, gently wake each other up in the morning with scissors as we say our morning prayers, and most nights we make love and fall asleep spooning. Sometimes when we are home all day on the weekend, we will enjoy some "afternoon delight" and both feel "tuned-up" for the rest of the day. Five years in with Karezza, we are both in the best overall physical and emotional health of our lives.
I shot a quick video about Sexual Energy from a 'success' perspective, using the chapter on Sexual Energy Transmutation from Nepolion Hills work Think and Grow Rich.
Would love feedback and comments.
I am thinking about creating a product to help people new to ongoing energetic lovemaking (Karezza).
What are/would be your biggest questions as beginners?
What got you interested in this to start with?
Male 64 with partner not completely interesting of the karezza path, so she finishes with an orgasm. However I have been living the karezza/tantric way for 12 years, but lately I have sometimes noticed weaker erections and a little less desire. Ejaculations are not interesting longer, but to stay close to the limit for long time is what I enjoy. I'm have been much more energetic and creative and filled with love feelings since I avoid ejaculations. However I have found out that there is some kind of taxation to stay close to the limit for an hour or two.
I've been reading the blog entries and I wanted to join the community for some time now.
I'm a virgin and a college student, and I used to be addicted to pornography and masturbation. However, coming across the Cupid's Poisoned Arrow by chance, it changed my world. I... no, my body agreed with every statement of the book. Reading the book was like the "The Truth will set you free" period.
My goodness, I have gained so much from revisiting Reuniting recently. The tips I have picked up from wealth of info on this wonderful site have made a huge difference to my practice in recent months, just wanted to express my deepest gratitude to Marnia and everyone who has ever contributed.
Our Karezza has gotten far better lately due to a few things:
Recently I was away for a period of time, sadly, and when I got back I had an enormous amount of sexual energy and we both came.
I'm not saying this is bad, but I wonder how you do it if you have a relationship where you live apart during the week.
When you get together, do you come at first, and then not come the rest of the weekend? Or do you learn to avoid coming at all?
I liked this quotation at the end. I've asked her for the citation.
“All that we can surmise of humankinds genetic history argues for a more liberal sexual morality, in which sexual practices are to be regarded first as bonding devices and only second as a means for procreation.” ~ E.O. Wilson
Ok , so I just came accross this blurry you tube film and wondered if it had ever been mentioned or discussed in this forum? It really spoke to me for the very reason of the difficulty I am continuing to have regulating my animal desires.