Opening Post from newbie ..................

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Submitted by peteraloha on

Dear gentle souls stumbling on this post:

Decades of obsession with orgasm, pushed around by hormonal urges (that is what they felt like), and repeated struggles with partners who either didn't meet my voracious appetite (sexual needs/urges) or, somehow failed my criteria to trigger arousal and sexual desire.................here I am, posting this at age 65, happy about sharing with a community of folks who might be able to relate.

The karezza is the hot new sex trend of 2018 – and it guarantees even BETTER orgasms (Daily Star)

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Submitted by Marnia on

[Clearly there's a media push behind this couple and their laughable, pro-orgasm version of karezza. Huh??? Their "orgasmic hug" video is a hoot, but I can't embed it. WARNING: Watch out for extreme triggers if you go to the original article.]

MANY couples are incorporating the karezza method into their love lives.

Karezza Is The Orgasm-Free Way To Improve Your Sex Life (Women's Health)

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Submitted by Marnia on

“People have sex like rabbits. Karezza is more like having sex like a tortoise.”

Whether it’s a quickie in the closet while the kids sleep, a brief bang in the bathroom in between teeth-brushing and face-washing, or a three-minute romp in the sack before the snoring strikes, you're probably good at “efficient” sex.

Resources for prolonging stamina

Submitted by longingforlight1 on


Are there any good resources (i.e. books, websites, articles) that describe techniques to help men prolong their stamina during intercourse? This seems especially important if we are practicing with a partner not interested in karezza as I would still like to prolong our experience while avoiding orgasm.


Starting karezza

Submitted by VagalTone on


I have so many questions (perhaps too much, sorry) about karezza and would like your opinions on the following questions. Also i know they are very hard to answer, but perhaps i can get some new perspective or insight:

- What do you think when the male is 10+ yo younger than the female ? Does it create in your opinion some challenge in the practice of karezza ? Do you know succesfull stories of couples or inspiring ones ?