I had sex for the first time about a week and a half ago - just short of my 30th birthday. The guy im with is a really good guy. He treats me well and we laugh ALOT together.
In my world all is very good. Karezza continues. Nothing has changed, which is good.
Cause and effect...lots of sexual abundance in my world, material abundance and good health continues along with it.
When I started here, maybe 6 years ago, I went back and read old threads avidly.
Marnia asked me about my contentment factor.
I am addicted to receiving affection. Gary Chapman in “The 5 Languages of Love“ talks about your Love Tank: How full is it? What fills it? As an addict I have narrowed it down to one thing, affection from my wife…all of my eggs in one basket, so to speak. I accept sex as a substitute. It’s easier for me to ask for sex than affection. If we have sex, orgasmic or not, I am stoned/high for 3-4 days then I start to slip into depression.
I am currently single, male, doing nofap, and quite frequently have wet dreams.
I was just curious for those in karezza relationships, do you still have wet dreams? Or did karezza harmonize and balance your sexual energy eliminating or diminishing your wet dreams?
A forum member shared this audio file of Watts discussing his take on karezza and Chinese sexual practices. From the person who sent the link:
I timestamped it for you around the most relevant part. But before and after that timestamped area is pretty relevant too. At 43:55 he says the word "karezza".
From the moment I became sexually active, I knew that there weren't a whole lot of benefits to orgasms for me (teen me would think - "well let's not do that again because I feel very lousy now"), but they were addictive and it took me many years to seriously consider what I would do about this issue.
Hey everyone.. been over a year.. and in that time I got pregnant again and now have a 3 month old girl :) oops. But a good oops. We are hopefully done. My partner is considering a vasectomy.. guys have any tips on that? Anyways
Husband: “Kindly instruct me as to how many times a man may have copulation with his wife.”
Socrates: “Only once in his life.”
Husband: “But if that fails to satisfy him?”
Socrates: “Then he can have copulation once a year.”
Husband: “But if that too doesn’t satisfy him?”
Socrates: “Then let it be once a month.”
Husband: “And if he is still not satisfied?”
Socrates: “Then let it be twice a month, but this will cause an early death.”
Here's the newest thing everyone's buzzing about: Karezza sex! What exactly is this and how will it spice up your sex life? Read on!
The rules are laid out pretty loud and clear — When it comes to sex, having orgasms is the ultimate goal every couple has. And that is the shortcoming (pun intended) of the way we perceive sex. Much like life, sex isn’t a destination, it’s a journey.