My priestess wife mentioned this morning how she felt – that women really need to feel deep sexual pleasure. “It’s such a longing that so many of us never get to experience – either because of mating sex, or because we just don’t know that a man is capable of giving us good sex.” The trouble is there is so much danger in the world today, so much sexual degeneration. Few couples really know how to cultivate sexual intimacy, especially on a level that is sacred and intensely satisfying.
When man and woman enter the sexual act, they connect two very complex organisms. They connect them where the most powerful energies are in the body: the sexual organs. In those organs are the root forces of creation. Normally, when we are not in the sexual act, all the powers that come into us, the power to be alive, descends through these three nervous systems and reflect the three forces that create, which are represented in religions as Father, Son, Holy Spirit; Kether, Chokmah, Binah; Brahma, Vishnu, Shiva, etc. Those forces come through our three nervous systems.
I have learned even better that a voice always says, "you should come", and when I'm inside her, I think, there is the voice, just as I expected to hear. And I pay no attention to the man behind the curtain and I avoid coming.
Except when I don't, but then I pay for it.
I found some things that increase libido and erections this year which I've been practicing, and all is good.
As I said a year ago, nothing changed wrt my wife and her low drive but I finally stopped caring.
I wanted to share a link to my blog that goes over what started me on this path. This is the result of a huge amount of "Trial and Error" and an intuitive feeling of "this isn't right" with normal sex.
I hope this helps someone see from a new perspective.
Sex without orgasm IS better.
I am thankful for the love and support found here. I am grateful for Marnia and Gary bringing forth the important information about orgasm and bonding. I give thanks for Izzy's embrace!
OMG this forum has been so flat and dead. Wake up y'all.
So I've been doing some health things that shall remain nameless and having extraordinary feelings and erections. Result is that I have come twice in a week. Not what I really enjoy.
I could have stopped it both times but I suppose it's really about getting a little too worked up.
Anyway, I want to say HI and hopefully spark some conversation here, on this most treasured place.