My girlfriend and I want to try the exchanges but we can't get "clean" for 2 weeks in order to start them, we each take a turn going over the edge ( or occasionally both at the same time) she is suggesting that we have intercourse but one of us be an "orgasm guardian" but this has not worked so well ..... I have suggested that we just start the exchanges to get through an orgasm free 2 weeks and then start again as the begining of the 3 weeks ? any suggestions????
also - is there an experience that this leads to that is ""orgasmic" in a sense like a heart gasm ..... or is the plan gasm free.....
I have heard some people talk about a type of full-body orgasm that sounds similar to a heartgasm but without it being a dry orgasm per se...... comments please?
Blisseeker ( robert)