So I haven't orgasmed in a few weeks or so and don't plan on it. Each day Sparkles and I are in bed snuggling and at some point I'll enter her for a bit. It's been magnificent but she says that she feels a bit pressured by me.
So today we were snuggling for the second time today, and she started to really respond. I asked her if she wanted an orgasm and she said yes so I went down on her and helped her get there and wow was that fun. She said, "occasionally I'll have an orgasm" and that's fine with me.
Then I asked if I could enter her and she said yes. I felt for the first time more truly welcomed.
I didn't feel any more interested in having one myself. We are having sex every day these days which I didn't dream of a month ago. Several times a day sometimes and I am encouraged that she is more and more open and I think this "pressure" thing is fading away.