A while back I read a book by Dianne Richardson. She was a follower of Barry Long and Osho who after running workshops wrote a book call "The Love Keys". Later it got renamed as "The Heart of Tantric Sex". I took the book off the shelf the other day and found that much of the stuff is very related to what is discussed on this web site.
She now travels around running workshops for couples and has written another book on the subject for women. I was wondering if anyone else has had any experience or contact.
Here is a quote from her book: -
[quote] Tantra is interested in non-ejaculation which is not to be confused with ejaculation control. Non-ejaculation means that the question of ejaculation never enters the picture. It is not even an issue because you are relaxing into it. This enables lovemaking to be a prolonged and satisfying exchange. On the other hand to control your ejaculation means that a strong urge to ejaculate is present and needs repressing. It then becomes an act of sheer will where the sex energy is first built up to a peak and then mental control is exerted to retract from ejaculation."[/quote]
So you can see that a lot of what she talks about seems to overlap with what is discussed on this site. It is interesting that through a very different path she may have come to a similar conclusion.