Undoubtedly, the most important metaphysical event in my life was also the first one. It was when I opened a line of communication to God. There were two reasons why I succeeded---I had developed sufficient faith and will. The faith part was that I knew beyond any doubt that my Heavenly Father loved me and that He was going to talk to me. The will part was the get-up-and-go which it took to drive into the mountains on a regular basis, to prepare myself, and then to kneel in pray for two hours at a time, pleading with Him to make his will concerning my life's mission known to me.
One time, in the stillness of sincere prayer, I felt a wonderfully joyous feeling fill me and I heard just one word in my mind. I knew that it wasn't me talking to me. The sensation was of someone outside of myself speaking to me. The word was Service. I was elated. With continued effort, I became efficient at speaking with Father, until all I had to do was to call His name and kind of focus on wherever it was that He was speaking from. Then I would be filled with that same joy and hear a voice in my mind, saying, "Here I am, what do you want?"
Focus seems to be one of the keys. This is a hard one to get right until you've heard your first answer to prayer. To know where to focus before feeling God is like being told to open one correct door out of a hundred without being told which door. After you pick the right door once, you can do so again because you know the way.
Having a quiet body and mind for a sufficient amount of time is another key. When I was still learning to be inwardly quiet, I used Autogenic Therapy. It's the one where you say, "My feet are heavy," and so forth. This same technique is used by hypnotist to induce a trance. The last phrase I used was always, "I am at peace." Then I'd envision my peace image. For me it was a lake on a sunny summer day. Whatever image you use should be one which makes you feel relaxed and at peace. In time, it becomes a trigger for you to instantly take you into a deep mental state and quiet your body.
Smiling, especially with the eyes, will also bring you peace. There are innumerable ways to find peace. Sitting in a good restaurant and leisurely enjoying a meal with someone you love will bring you into this state. However you do it, once you are quiet enough, simply close your eyes and speak to God as you would your best friend. Be quiet and wait, expecting an answer.
Some people say to focus on the heart when praying. If that works for you, then go for it. Some look up into the heavens when they address God. My most common method is to simply open my awareness into wherever it is that He is, like tapping into another dimension. As you gain experience with talking with God, you may start to feel that He and you are both connected to All That Is. Then you may get feelings that you are God and He is you. These are just signs that you are beginning to break through the veil of separation between who you think you are and who you really are.
That's what prayer is all about---it's a small stone which, when thrown into a calm lake, sends ripples over the entire lake's surface. Consistent prayer will eventually break down your resistance to the Light. If you obey this inner voice which has awakened in you, then you will receive a stronger guidance, bringing you step by step into the Divine Presence, then you become that Divine Presence during prayer. Prayer is such a small stone to throw but eventually, it becomes the whole world.
What does this have to with Sacred Sex? Sacred Sex IS prayer---of a specific nature, nonetheless, it is an act of approaching God.
Many of you have an inner voice or some other form of inner guidance. Talking about this and getting it into the open will help those who are still searching find that "voice".