I have been with my husband for 6 years, married for 2. Whilst we sarted off with a healthy sex life it has over the years dwindled. after the first year together I discovered he had been using porn, when I confronted him he denied it strongly & made excuses for the search history. I have since found on regular occassion he uses porn has signed up to adult dating sites & even paid to watch live web cams. I have made him aware of how this upsets me, we had a long chat about a year ago & he promised he would stop. He has since got an Iphone and again I found porn usage on there. I don't know how to bring this up any more as it never seems to change, we only seem to have sex on the weekends after he has had a few drinks. He is loving in other ways, cuddles me every night kisses me every morning before work always tells me he loves me & I'm beautiful, so therefore I am so confused if he means all of this then why does he feel the need to get off on porn when I'm not around but not cease opportunities when I'm right there dying for attention? Can aybody advise how I should deal with this or give me any insight as to why this is happening?