Ask Your Partner What They Want and Need

Submitted by addymark on
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In happy and lovely marriage life, This is one of the most important ingredients, yet most overlooked. Most often, people give their partner what they want themselves. The better approach is to ask your partner, "What can I do to help?" or "What do you need?"

Yes,

a generous mindset, rather than a deal mentality (a manipulative, "If I give you an explosive orgasm, then you'll owe me one") soothes the nervous system, by making partners feel safe. Bonding is easier.

Thanks for sharing your thoughts.