Anyone else trying/wanting to conceive?

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My partner and I have just attended a workshop with Marnia and Gary, and are very interested in trying this, it seems to be just what we are searching for. The problem is, I am trying to get pregnant and it is taking a while. I wonder if there is any point in trying to get started with this if we will have to keep having sex with ejaculation each month?

Wondering if anyone else has this dilemma....

Anyone else trying/wanting to conceive?

Yes, this is quite an issue. It's worth noting that a number of people still get pregnant whilst abstaining from orgasm.
We are practicing the exchanges as described by Marnia but my wife feels like she'd like to get pregnant in the not too distant future. However, I really don't want to go back to orgasm/ejaculation type sex. I feel a bit like an orgasm-aholic and I don't want to fall back into that again. It's quite a dilemma.
I have found a couple of times that if I've been very close to an orgasm but have been able to concentrate and stop it from happening then it doesn't happen but there is still a tiny amount of semen emitted.

Anyone else trying/wanting to conceive?

Thanks for your reply...I can understand what a dilemma this can be for people who don't want to return to their old patterns! It's encouraging that some have concieved without having to do this.

If anyone else has had this experience, I'd love to hear from you!

Anyone else trying/wanting to conceive?

endless wrote:
Thanks for your reply...I can understand what a dilemma this can be for people who don't want to return to their old patterns! It's encouraging that some have concieved without having to do this.

If anyone else has had this experience, I'd love to hear from you!

This link is to a quote from Claire where she's mentioned that she's gotten pregnant twice without her partner having orgasm.

http://www.reuniting.info/node/322

also here:
http://www.reuniting.info/node/366