Firstly, I should say that I don't have much of an understanding of the practice of Karezza. I'm a 20 year old virgin who has been abstaining from pmo for over a month now with the goal of stopping my dependency on porn and masturbation, but orgasm in a loving relationship with a partner I've always accepted and seen as something I'm working towards.
I just wanted to ask the forum users about the problem of premature ejaculation. It's common knowledge that excessive masturbation can lead to erectile disfunction and premature ejaculation, but what about orgasm after abstaining for a significant period of time? The idea of the problem has been something that has always played on my mind and I, during my addiction, even read some sites suggest that to prevent the problem you should practice by masturbating (A particularly gross out scene in the film Something About Mary suggests something similar!), and its articles like this that helped perpetuate my overmasturbation. (Though it should be emphasised I don't intend to go back to masturbation for this purpose.)
I guess the common worry, as someone who has never had sex, before is to not satisfy a partner or worse to come across as selfish. So I was wondering if anybody on the forum could shed any light on this? Bearing in mind I'm open to practices like karezza, just largely ignorant of them!