Hi. My wife has 35 days of pregnancy of our second child. We are very happy, because it is something we had been looking for a few months. In general, her sexual desire is lower than mine and this has been particularly notorious during recent weeks, during which she has her libido very low.
Since the beginning of this year I have begun to keep statistics about my daily sexual habits, in order to analyze and draw conclusions about my sex life. During these two long months, I have observed the following:
- 20% of the days we had sex. In almost all cases she has had an orgasm and I has ejaculated.
- 60% of the days I has masturbated, almost always watching pornographic videos on my cell phone. In all these cases I have controlled me, preventing ejaculation. These masturbation sessions lasted between 10 minutes and 3 hours and usually have a frequency of 1 time per day.
- 30% of the days I have not had any sexual activity.
- Most of the time I have seen attractive to prevent ejaculation. Only very occasionally, at times of high sexual excitement, my mind has found attractive the idea of ejaculation.
21 days ago was my last sexual intercourse with ejaculation with my partner. And 8 days ago was our last relationship in which I could hold my semen. This means that during the last 21 days I have not ejaculated.
In recent days I've been analyzing my behavior in relation to my habit of masturbation without ejaculation. What I saw was that I use this practice to keep my energy active and to feel good in many of the days when I have not sexual activity with my partner. When I start to feel a little low on energy I masturbate without ejaculation. After that I feel better and with more active energy.
Addition to all this, almost every day I practice a technique for circulating my energy through the chakras called kriya yoga. With this I feel I can spiritualize my energy and my will to prevent my ejaculation.
I want to ask your opinion about my habit of frequent masturbation without ejaculation and if you consider ir can be harmful in some way. Thanks in advance for your attention and opinion.