I hope most women don't feel this way. It's interesting to see how many male posts versus female posts address cuddling. It could be that women can more readily pick up guys but perhaps it is not limited to that. There are also discussions on online dating sites about the male desire to cuddle. It seems women are rather suspicious of us men. I presume their brains are out of whack too.
Lifted from NYC Craigslist (no link as the page will expire anyway) and presumably posted by a woman.
What's Up With Inviting Total Strangers Over To Cuddle? (ice princess ville)
Date: 2011-04-03, 8:49PM EDT
When I see guys wanting a woman to come over and cuddle I shake my head in disgust.
I guess you guys haven't gotten the memo that cuddling is more intimate than sex. Two people can get trashed in a bar and have animalistic primal sex. Who is going to cuddle with a total stranger?
Cuddling has to be EARNED, something that you want to do with someone once you've gotten to know them and feel comfortable....not after 15 minutes and a few emails or a phone convo...
Just another example of how the internet has killed dating and shaped men's minds of everything "on demand" and skipping over the "uncomfortable" parts of dating...and putting a band aid on their "loneliness" temporarily until they need their next fix, post their next ad, screw with another woman's head while they "sort out" their feelings....
So when your cuddle partner shows up at your door(and again who would invite a total stranger over)and she looks like snookie on a bad day(or actually bobby moynihan imitating snookie, chest hair and all....).....you tell me....