I know this question is an oxymoron but bear with me.
I have given up completely from masturbation, ejaculation & porn for good. I do not ever want to release my semen unless I am having kids. I will have sex with any future partner but not ejaculate at all unless we are having kids.
I kindly, respectfully & politely ask that forum members do not give their criticisms on my decision. The sexual energy & semen that builds up simply gets circulated to the brain & physical body. Prostate congestion will not occur because the liquids sublimate to the spine. Prostate cancer should not occur as long the person is not ingesting toxins into their body.
If prostate congestion were to occur, I simply use a Aneros prostate massager which will stop the congestion, flush it & keep it healthy. Ejaculations do not keep the prostate healthy, in fact excessive ejaculations can harm the prostate. Balance is key.
Whether you agree with my medical philosophy is not my agenda - I am simply kindly, respectfully & politely asking forum members not to direct or guide this thread into debate about whether ejaculation is harmful or beneficial.
This thread is about forum members offering their friendly guidance, opinions & well-thought out analysis on whether a fleshlight is right for me according to the sexual lifestyle I have decided to choose.
Do not hijack the thread into a debate about which sex lifestyle is better than they other.
[B]Guide the thread into a debate about whether a Fleshlight (if any model) is something which should be used by someone with my particular sexual lifestyle.[/B]
Why am I considering a fleshlight?
Because I was very much into masturbation for 10 years (I'm 21 years old now) & ejaculations were at the very least a common daily occurrence - I want to cure the negative effects these have had over a 10 year period.
Specifically, Death Grip Syndrome & premature ejaculations is what I am specifically looking to cure.
The fleshlight model I believe would be best for me according the research I did would be The Stamina Training Unit.
But here is my dilemma: There is a big risk in me ejaculating & I am also wondering if they are alternative cures for these two problems instead of risking an ejaculation.
I plan to use the STU until these two problems are cured. After that I do am not going to probably use the STU EVER again, maybe in a rare case if I have a partner & have sexual issues with them. Maybe a total of 30 sessions & there will not be a single ejaculation at all in those sessions.
I will still keep the STU handy if a rare occurrence rises in the future with issues with those two problems or with performance issues with my future partner. But mostly likely it will never be used after these two problems are fixed.
I am also doing Kegel exercises to cure premature ejaculation. I am also taking Horny Goat Weed, Maca Root & Mucana Puriens to fix these two problems.
Soon I will be taking 50mg Clomid daily for 2 months which will cause my testicles to start producing more testosterone permanently as prescribed by doctor. My testicles will become bigger due to this medication. (Doctor told me to expect it.) Steroid abusers often take this drug after getting off their cocktail steroids because steroids makes the body stop producing testosterone. My doctor said I need this medication due to some minor issues with my endocrine system which will be fixed after this treatment.
I am also doing testicle massage. I also work out. I also meditate with brainwave entrainment technology.
So coming back to the main point - Is a fleshlight right for me to help me for sex therapy?
I am not going to be using it for masturbation to gain pleasure but I will be [I]stimulating[/I] my penis with a STU in order to retrain my nervous system after which my Fleshlight will mostly likely never be used again after 30 sessions attempting to retrain my nervous.
The risk that I do not like is ejaculation. I simply want to edge on the fleshlight while it retrains my central nervous system to a natural setting.
Maybe their is a price to pay for everything in life? Maybe temporarily I will have to accept the risk of having a few ejaculations. Once the problems are cured I will mostly likely never use it again... So I guess it isn't too bad?
I intend to train myself with the fleshlight STU to point where I can almost control my ejaculation 100%, premature ejaculation cured, & death grip syndrome cured. After which, I will stop using it forever. (Unless, I need it for sexual therapy in the future.)
What do you guys think? Do I really need a fleshlight? Which one? Can my problems be better handled in other ways? How am I better off if I want to follow my lifestyle?
Maybe I should be willing to accept the risk of a few ejaculations for my own sake of curing my problems? After which I will be free for the rest of my life with taking such a risk?
I mean I'm only going to be doing this stimulation for a very temporary period of time to specifically cure some problems with a risk of ejaculation although I will attempt to prevent that from happening... so it isn't such a big deal? Because once this is over - I will no longer be doing this stimulation which will risk ejaculation & I will walk away with some of my sexual problems cured....
Please give me feedback, answers, opinions, & your advice