I am a new member and I have come here to explore the concepts of karezza.
I will give a short history. I am a man in my middle forties. I was married to a narcissist for 19 years.
During the marriage, the only sex that I experienced was the cold and mechanical sort.
After being divorced, I took some time to develop a relationship with a woman out of the country. I spent several months earlier this year experiencing conventional sex that I can only describe as phenomenal. I am back in my own country now, but without my lover.
The above is a synopsis. Of course there are a plethora of details left out such as why a man would stay in a horrible marriage for so long, or I could tell you what I think good or bad conventional sex is, or I could say why I returned without the woman that I found out of country. But, I am just hoping that I can get a few well considered answers.
Assume that a narcissist is somewhere on the range of psychopathy, and that as a psychopath, this person is unable to form a true bond with another human being. It is also known that a psychopath can mimic many human emotions, and do so without conscience.
I have not attempted karezza, but from what I have read, there is an amazing bond that occurs.
The question I would like to start with is this:
Can karezza be faked by a psychopath?
I am guessing that this will be one of the more difficult questions that will be fielded on this forum.