I just want to describe my problem and hope that anyone may have a clou how to overcome this.
After having a period of several weeks of extensive sex, i completely lost my libido. Reading some articles on this website it may be the here described hangover effect, but there are two things that do not match. First the hangover lasts now 6 weeks instead of the described up to 2 weeks, and secondary although I had lots of sexual intercourses I did not have many orgasms as I come very hardly.
Maybe the longer duration of the hangover is due to the really excessive ammount of sex (one to two hours of sex almost every day and 10 hours one night every 2 weeks), but how comes the hangover wihtout having an excess number of orgasms?
I may have come about 4 times during the last 6 weeks of this phase during coitus and maybe once every second or third day by masturbation to relieve the pain in the "balls" that comes after having sex without having orgasm.
Anyone any Idea why this happens and how to come out of this hangover?
The sex (also without orgasms) was very good and very euphoric. Could it be that even without excessive orgasma there was such a high dopamine level for that long time in my brain, that this has caused such a dramatic change in dopamine receptors or that it may have depleted all available dopamine resources???
Thank you very much in advance for any ideas you have to offer
My nick comes from the fact that I am addicted to womens orgasms. My lover is able to come more than onehundred times over a 10 hour night with me, and I just can not live anymore without her orgasms.