i dont know what to do at this point. I have been trying all the different approaches to deal with being stimulated by the sight of beautiful women in my viewline, and they work, but at some point, its just too much and i either end up masturbating or having addicitve/objectify-ish sex with a girl. The 'be thankful to the universe for being witness to their beauty' and 'look, feel, move on' and '3rd person observer' approaches i mentioned before are good but only for so long. i am in an environment where just walking the streets I am surrounded by women that have one beautiful feature or another. This girl has great breasts, this one gorgeous eyes, this girl has thin shapely legs. Its like the energy builds and builds from these experiences and i dont know what to do with it. I dont know what to do with it. I feel like my brain will always react this way. Why when i see a woman with nice looks, face, body does it upset me this way? why do i want to posess her, to merge with her beauty and the only way i know how to do that is through sex, though the desire to penetrate. I am running out of ideas here..i am starting the think this is hopeless. even when i am exercising, meditating, doing everything to nuture myself and try to stay balanced, a few hits of beauty on the street, and I am dealing with the same issues. I need a practical method here or a paradigm shift or something. should i walk around with my eyes closed? should i move to a place where there are no women i find attractive?.i cant take this anymore!!! help!