Karezza in casual sexual relationships [1]

(Clarity) A few weeks ago I experienced new levels of sexual bliss. He and I had been interested in each other for a year, but live far apart. We only see each other at an annual conference. He knew about my sexual practice and researched and read up on it. We very quickly found ourselves in bed and I moved into his hotel room with him. Even with all the other things we had to do, we spent five hours in connection over the course of two days. We both found in each other someone who was willing to try things nobody else had ever wanted to explore. He said all his previous lovers complained that he took too long, went too slow. He works with chi as an acupuncturist and chi gong instructor, so he already had experience with intentionally circulating energy. He also was familiar from chinese medicine with the idea that excessive orgasm could be a problem, although he himself has a couple orgasms a week. With such a present, willing partner, I began to get a glimpse of what this sexual practice could be. The connection of our hearts and the openness we felt were so thrilling. I felt high and shiny, blissful. On the third day he could barely touch me without risking orgasm, he felt so overstimulated. We were both feeling constantly high and distracted from the work we had to do at the conference. He wanted to come, just to get some relief. I went along with the plan, and had my first orgasms in 10 1/2 months. It was as if my body had forgotten how. They were ok, but nothing like they used to be. Immediately, the spell was broken, we got up from bed and got on with things. It was an enormous relief from the high energy state we had been in. I didn't feel all that insane. The next day he reserved us a hot tub and we practiced until my body completely remembered how to have earth shattering orgasms. Afterwards, I found some things he did a little bit annoying, but he was so sweet, we enjoyed our last few hours together.