Research/ Study

Sexual Desire Discrepancy as a Feature, Not a Bug, of Long-Term Relationships: Women's Self-Reported Strategies for Modulating Sexual Desire

This new research by the Kinsey Institute unfortunately demonstrates that the policies they have tried to teach us for the last 60 years are not working. Maybe it's time we stopped relying on sexologists for advice and demanded real research on the effects of sex on the brain and on pair bonding.

'Neuroenhancement of Love and Marriage: The Chemicals Between Us'

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love pillHere's an intriguing piece by some Oxford academics, Julian Savulescu and Anders Sandberg. Although we think trying to use pills to keep couples together would be extremely unwise, we understand that there don't seem to be many options once one really sees the human dilemma clearly...especially if one is convinced that 'sexual satiation equals wellbeing.' We can't help wondering if these authors would trumpet the ethics of changing behavior to increase the chances of remaining in love with as much gusto as they recommend popping theoretical mating pills with risky outcomes.

The more orgasms, the less attractive women find men

annoyed woman with crossed armsLast year a sexologist did research on women engaging in various kinds of sexual activity for 30 days - and tested them to see how attractive and friendly they found (unknown) men's pictures. He was trying to prove that women engaging in PVI (penile-vaginal intercourse) would find pictures of strange men less attractive than the other women did, because they would be more bonded with their mates.